In Gay Relationship There’s a Perceived Value in “Being Normal”

What is “normal” in gay relationship according to psychology? Our best leaders were mentally ill. Dr. Nassir Ghaemi, who runs the Mood Disorders Program at Tufts Medical Center in Boston has published a new book that makes the case that many of humanities best leaders were actually mentally ill. In order to agree on who […]

Gay Relationship, Long Term! Gay Marriage Here We Come!

Gay Relationship Long Term, what’s the secret? The “secret sauce” for keeping any relationship going, long term, is: keeping the emotional connection strong. That’s it! You succeed in doing this and the rest works with a lot less effort. Emotional connection/emotional intimacy is the lubrication that keeps a relationship functional. It’s like the motor in […]

Gay Marriage Compatibility, Am I attracted to you?

Gay Marriage Compatibility tends to be measured by one “super criteria;” that being “Am I attracted to you?” Unfortunately, the other criteria that ought to be used to consider the compatibility of a partner are, for many gay men, these other criteria take a distant second place to this one over-riding question. If I don’t […]

Gay Dating Tips for Happy, Successful Partnership

For a Happy Successful, Satisfying and Loving Relationship, follow these Gay Dating Tips. Actually these gay dating rules are good for any kind of relationship. I came up with this list of gay relationship tips while working with gay male couples. I’ve since shared them with all types of couples. In the USA we grow […]