After an Affair, Give Couples Therapy A Try

It’s hard to admit, but both partners are at fault in an affair. (This article was picked up and published on Huffington Post on October 7th, 2013 “Why should I go to couples therapy? You’re the one who had the affair; you should go to $%&@ therapy!” Do you see yourself saying something like that […]

Gay Marriage — 27 Good Reasons To Support It

Imagine how difficult any marriage would be without these legal rights! Marriage is on the rocks in the USA but Gay Marriage is still a top priority for the LGBT Community. Heterosexuals take marriage for granted. They know that it is there for them whenever they decide to get married. Most people in the USA […]

Gay Marriage: 4 Good Things. We’ve Come A Long Way Baby!

Gay Marriage: Evolving From The Right To Exist To the Right To Gay Marriage. More then fourteen years ago states like Colorado passed Constitutional amendments banning LGBT people’s civil rights. Those discriminatory amendments were eventually overturned by the US Supreme Court. Today gay marriage is now legal in nine states, Washington State the newest. On […]

Stress — 21st Century Life is stressful!

Stress Less And Help Success Psychotherapy & Professional & Personal Coaching by Larry Cappel, Your Denver Counseling Stress a big part of your life? Anxious? Depressed? Do you feel that your moods are dictating how you respond at home or at work? Fulfillment and genuine self-esteem are possible! Call today!

In Gay Relationship There’s a Perceived Value in “Being Normal”

What is “normal” in gay relationship according to psychology? Our best leaders were mentally ill. Dr. Nassir Ghaemi, who runs the Mood Disorders Program at Tufts Medical Center in Boston has published a new book that makes the case that many of humanities best leaders were actually mentally ill. In order to agree on who […]

Gay Relationship, Long Term! Gay Marriage Here We Come!

Gay Relationship Long Term, what’s the secret? The “secret sauce” for keeping any relationship going, long term, is: keeping the emotional connection strong. That’s it! You succeed in doing this and the rest works with a lot less effort. Emotional connection/emotional intimacy is the lubrication that keeps a relationship functional. It’s like the motor in […]

Gay Marriage Compatibility, Am I attracted to you?

Gay Marriage Compatibility tends to be measured by one “super criteria;” that being “Am I attracted to you?” Unfortunately, the other criteria that ought to be used to consider the compatibility of a partner are, for many gay men, these other criteria take a distant second place to this one over-riding question. If I don’t […]

Gay Dating Tips for Happy, Successful Partnership

For a Happy Successful, Satisfying and Loving Relationship, follow these Gay Dating Tips. Actually these gay dating rules are good for any kind of relationship. I came up with this list of gay relationship tips while working with gay male couples. I’ve since shared them with all types of couples. In the USA we grow […]