Gay Relationship Advice — Emotional Intimacy Is The Key

Is Intimacy in Gay Relationships Possible? There is a lot of confusion about what intimacy is, especially intimacy in gay relationships. Gay relationship is a challenge in a heterosexual dominated world. Men in particular tend to confuse sex with intimacy. So, if I’m having sex with you then I’m being intimate with you. However, as […]

Gay Cure Therapy: Illegal In Cali, Immoral Everywhere

You don’t have to choose between God and homosexuality California recently became the first state in the nation to ban reparative or conversion therapy for LGBT people. This good news has caused me to remembert my own coming out process and how difficult that was. I came out of the closet as a gay man when I was 36 years old. […]

In Gay Relationship There’s a Perceived Value in “Being Normal”

What is “normal” in gay relationship according to psychology? Our best leaders were mentally ill. Dr. Nassir Ghaemi, who runs the Mood Disorders Program at Tufts Medical Center in Boston has published a new book that makes the case that many of humanities best leaders were actually mentally ill. In order to agree on who […]

Gay Marriage Compatibility, Am I attracted to you?

Gay Marriage Compatibility tends to be measured by one “super criteria;” that being “Am I attracted to you?” Unfortunately, the other criteria that ought to be used to consider the compatibility of a partner are, for many gay men, these other criteria take a distant second place to this one over-riding question. If I don’t […]

Gay Dating Tips for Happy, Successful Partnership

For a Happy Successful, Satisfying and Loving Relationship, follow these Gay Dating Tips. Actually these gay dating rules are good for any kind of relationship. I came up with this list of gay relationship tips while working with gay male couples. I’ve since shared them with all types of couples. In the USA we grow […]