How Straight People Wrecked the Institution of Marriage

The Institution of Marriage Was In Trouble Long Before Gay Marriage Arrived Opponents of same sex marriage often say they are trying to protect the institution of marriage when they oppose same sex marriage. I say they are a little late. If they really wanted to “save the institution of marriage” they needed to start […]

Gay Relationship: How to Get the Intimate Love You Want

We all long for intimate relationship with another. Gay Relationships are extra challenging. Even if we don’t quite know what we’re longing for we know something’s missing you we don’t have it. Healthy intimacy is hard for everybody and gay relationship is even more challenging. For gay men to attain this intimate emotional connection with […]

After an Affair, Give Couples Therapy A Try

It’s hard to admit, but both partners are at fault in an affair. (This article was picked up and published on Huffington Post on October 7th, 2013 “Why should I go to couples therapy? You’re the one who had the affair; you should go to $%&@ therapy!” Do you see yourself saying something like that […]

Gay Marriage — Come Out, Come Out, Wherever you Are!

Gay Marriage — Helping More People Come Out of the Closet The Supreme Court to Decide on Gay Marriage and Rob Portman Comes Out! Olly olly, oxen free! In the children’s game Hide and Seek, the players stay hidden until found or called to come out of their hiding spots. As adults, if we stay […]

Coming Out of the Closet, Senator Rob Portman Now in Support of Gay Marriage

Coming Out, Senator Rob Portman makes his Gay Son Proud and Embraces Gay Pride Republican Senator Rob Portman formerly a defender of DOMA, the defense of marriage act, has had a change of heart. He’s coming out himself since his son came out to him as a gay man 2 years ago. Now the Senator […]

Gay Relationship Advice — Emotional Intimacy Is The Key

Is Intimacy in Gay Relationships Possible? There is a lot of confusion about what intimacy is, especially intimacy in gay relationships. Gay relationship is a challenge in a heterosexual dominated world. Men in particular tend to confuse sex with intimacy. So, if I’m having sex with you then I’m being intimate with you. However, as […]

Don’t Make New Years Resolutions!

7 Ways To Make Real Change In The New Year Happy New Year! Have you made your New Years Resolutions yet? Most of us at least consider doing so. Here are 7 steps you can take to make real and meaningful change in the new year: Don’t make grandiose New Years resolutions. There is nothing like failure […]

Gay Marriage: 4 Good Things. We’ve Come A Long Way Baby!

Gay Marriage: Evolving From The Right To Exist To the Right To Gay Marriage. More then fourteen years ago states like Colorado passed Constitutional amendments banning LGBT people’s civil rights. Those discriminatory amendments were eventually overturned by the US Supreme Court. Today gay marriage is now legal in nine states, Washington State the newest. On […]

World AIDS Day — Reverend Eric Williams and Jannette Berkley-Patton

World AIDS Day A Moving Story About A Young Minister’s First Experience With AIDS Today, December 1st is World Aids Day. Reverend Eric Williams tells his co-worker Jannette Berkley-Patton about his first experience with AIDS. See on storycorps.

Gay Cure Therapy: Illegal In Cali, Immoral Everywhere

You don’t have to choose between God and homosexuality California recently became the first state in the nation to ban reparative or conversion therapy for LGBT people. This good news has caused me to remembert my own coming out process and how difficult that was. I came out of the closet as a gay man when I was 36 years old. […]